I can’t believe how quickly this summer break has been going. I even had to stop and think about the fact that I hadn’t posted anything for the month of July until now. Talking about letting time get away from you. Yikes! But, please know that I’ve been working, just not-so-much in the online front.
That’s the thing about being a solopreneur — it’s not possible to be everywhere all the time. And, I don’t want to be. I do what I can do and that’s all I can do if I want to keep my sanity.
Now, I have to admit that . . . yes . . . I’ve been working with the Summer Reading Program students as well as the children that I mentor through the youth membership club I created. But outside of the “forward-facing other human beings” stuff, I’ve been slacking a bit.
And, I’m not going to feel guilty about it, because nobody is holding the fire to my feet and telling me that I have to do this or that. So, any pressure I put on myself is strictly of my own doing.
But, I’m not going to do that anymore. I’m too old for that. I’ll give myself habits to prioritize that lead to the goals I need to fulfill, and that’s that. The grind has to go. I’ve been there, done that. And, I don’t want to do that anymore.
With this outlook though, I have to be willing to take ownership of the fact that my non-pressure, non-push, non-grind philosophy may result in less than desired outcomes on what I want to achieve in the optimistic timeframe in which I’d hoped to achieve some of my creative pursuits.
That will have to be okay, too.
There are some “other” things that are worth prioritizing and putting more energy into (at least the energy I can muster up) than trying to do “all the things” that just aren’t as much of a priority right now.
Now, this blog will ALWAYS be a priority, but it’s not as high on the list as some other things in my life that I’ve had to tend to. So, please forgive me; but again, as a solo act, I have to do some juggling at times. That juggling may look like — taking a break from the Degrees of Maternity blog every once in a while. I’ve done it before, and this won’t be the last time I do it.
But, I always come back.
Anyone who’s been around here long enough knows that I eventually come back. And I must admit, it always feels SO GOOD to be back home.
So, I just wanted to take some time to say “hi” and that all is well. I pray that you and yours are doing blessed and prioritizing the things you need to do in life to keep things moving along while letting you keep your peace, health, and happiness. Those around you will appreciate that.
NEXT TIME (not promising exactly when that will be, but NEXT TIME) . . .
Let’s do a little bit of catchup with “The Literacy Corner – Update #9,” shall we?
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Well, hi there, my friend. I definitely missed you, for sure. But in all honesty, I haven’t been around here much lately. I need to get back to my blogging life, though. I’ve been missing it so much. I’ve been extremely busy (in a very blessed way) with working with children through my tutoring services and as well as offering a youth membership experience for some truly awesome children. So, the kiddos have been keeping me busy. Here’s where I’m at now. As far as next month goes, my goal is to get my blogging back on track. So, thank you so much for coming this way and checking on me. It’s a great reminder that I need to get busy over here and put some great content out. I pray that you and your family are doing well, Mthobisi. Have a most blessed week and take care of yourself, my friend.
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Hi JANA WILLIAMS, How are you Madam? Okay Please forgive me, I have been away for a long long long time from your BLOG and if I were your son, you would have to Punish me, haha, I mean a good son (Which I am at home by the way) is always there to help the mother so forgive me for being absent, my life has been busy at home but I am Back my friend.
Also, I am now blogging using the Library computers and this blog post of yours is still as good as I remeber it. Degrees of maternity is a good blog name as I usually say and by the way, did you MISS ME, haha. Have a great month of September, we are going to that month by fire by force
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Phil, you’re definitely telling it like it is. What can I say? Yes, the truth will definitely set us free. Hee. Hee. And, here’s the truth of the matter. I must be REAL with myself (and have a realistic view of what I can take on) because there’s no use biting off more than I can chew. What a waste that becomes! So, I’m going to be more intentional and prioritize my efforts a bit better, so I don’t lose myself. There’s always going to be a lot to do, but I need to just focus on what I can realistically take on as one human being. I can’t serve everybody. And, that’s most definitely THE TRUTH. So, thank you for always being that voice to usher me back into reality. I need that, my friend. Peace and blessings to you and your family.
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My dear Kat! It’s always so wonderful to hear from you. You always bring the sweetness and encouragement in your comments – that GOOD STUFF that I so truly appreciate. Thank you for acknowledging that it’s okay to give ourselves grace and chill a bit when we need to. As I get older, I’m definitely learning to be more and more okay with it. I pray all is well with you and the family. Another new school year is upon us. Yikes! I’m sure your children are so grown now. It doesn’t take these children long to grow up on us. May you all have a smooth and enjoyable start to the new school year. Again, thank you for being such an awesome supporter of Degrees of Maternity!
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Jana, as I mentioned earlier, you have been taking on too much and should prioritise more. The truth has finally caught up with you. Now, no going back!
In the meantime, all the best and keep on trucking on.
Regards, Phil ________________________________
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It’s so nice to see you giving yourself some time to slack off! We all need that grace and permission now and then, and I know how hard you always work every day for yourself, your family, and your wonderful students. We’re all always so grateful for everything you do and give.
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