Writing Therapy ISN’T the ONLY Therapy Out There

Writing has always been my thing, even before I was consciously aware of it. But, it may not necessarily be the thing that floats YOUR boat. And, that’s okay. Not everyone is going to gravitate toward the same activities with the same amount of enthusiasm and fervor.

And, not everyone will look at the same activities as being enjoyable, relaxing, or even therapeutic.

For example, deep cleaning the house might provide a pleasurable experience for one person; while another person may see that very same activity as a complete dread and stressor. (I’m not going to “out” myself and tell you which category I fall into. Hee. Hee.)

So, I never want to presume that writing is what can help revive, rejuvenate, renew, replenish, realign, reactivate . . . a well that has run dry — in ALL cases.

Because, we (as individuals) are very unique. We ALL have THAT THING that lights us up and gives us joy and helps us cope and provides us with comfort and sets us on a right path mentally, physically, and spiritually.

And, maybe it’s not even THAT THING — more than likely, it’s a combination of THINGS that provide us with a form of therapy in our lives that brings about the balance in our states of well-being.

After all, therapy, in a more simplified perspective, is just a way to apply healing properties to a state of well-being that’s off balance.

WE NEED BALANCE!

And so, I see why people gravitate toward different activities to bring about a rightful placement in life that allows them to experience a more quality way of life.

Quality way of life.

In fact, I’m ONLY and quite SPECIFICALLY referring to those activities (we gravitate toward) that lead us to a QUALITY way of living that brings balance in our lives — reviving, rejuvenating, renewing, replenishing, realigning, and reactivating us while setting us on a path of life improvement.

So for me, that activity is WRITING. But it’s also reading for self-improvement, and studying God’s Word, and helping others, and being around family but also getting alone time, and resting while doing nothing, and watching an inspirational show, and going for walks in the park, and the list goes on and on.

These are the types of things that bring ME balance, but what about YOU?

What floats your boat and brings a sense of balance to your state of well-being . . . of refilling your well . . . of adding quality to your day-to-day?

I implore you to answer this question for yourself. I mean . . . think deeply about it. And actually, you probably won’t even have to think too deeply about it, because the answer will come quite easily to you (when isolating those things that put a little pep in your step or twinkle in your eye).

And once you have your lineup (list) of the THING or THINGS that provide the answer to the above, DO MORE OF THAT!

Just for the fun of it, I thought I’d do a little start-up list for you (in case you’re struggling a bit on your own list). Now, this “Therapy” List I’ve created is based on a conglomerate of activities that have provided not only balance to myself but balance to others I’ve observed.

Your list will, likely, have some similarities, have some items on the list that don’t apply, and have some items that are missing altogether. So, tweak the list to fit YOUR balance needs.

Then, as I just stated a few sentences ago — DO THE THING OR THINGS that bring the balance!

The “Therapy” List

Music therapy (such as singing, playing an instrument, listening to music, writing music), art therapy (such as coloring, water coloring, painting, drawing, sculpting), writing therapy (such as journaling, creating poetry, blogging, writing a book), physical therapy (such as massage therapy and aquatic therapy), chiropractic care, aromatherapy, “spa day” pampering (such as manicures, pedicures, facial masks), gardening, cleaning, exercising, dancing, playing and watching sports, cooking, sleeping, resting, watching or listening to different forms of media, reading, learning for self-improvement, being out in nature, playing video games, playing card/board games, engaging in family time, spending time with friends, taking care of and playing with animals, traveling . . .

6 thoughts on “Writing Therapy ISN’T the ONLY Therapy Out There

  1. Phiiiiillll! I absolutely LOVE your “wise old sayings.” So, fundamental and SO TRUE. Sometimes, changing up the routine can invite progress toward balance in life. I think we can get into ruts sometimes and keep trying to work with stuff that’s not working or bringing that balance we so desperately need. So, I appreciate this point that you’ve brought up about not being “fixated on one or two activities or thought processes” and the fact that this way of being can actually lead to being “unbalanced.” Especially if the one or two things being focused on are really not serving you well. Keep on doing what you’re doing Phil, because it’s helped get you to the blessed age you are. So, I’ll take a page from your book on this one. Overall health and fitness, rest and relaxation techniques, enjoyable pastimes and needed downtime, personal and professional development — all of these areas and more could use a little variety to spice up one’s life and bring about the balance. LOVE IT, Phil. And, I’m listening.

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  2. That is so funny that you mentioned the floors as being that THING for you, because I was actually talking to a cousin of mine about this early this morning. And she was saying that she just has to have her hardwood floors clean (even if everything else is chaos). There’s just something about being able to walk barefoot on clean hardwood floors that is a MUST in her house when it comes to balance. So, I pretend toast “to endless days of clean floors for all!” Guess that means I’d better get to cleaning mine. Hee. Hee.

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  3. Jana,
    Thanks for your thoughts on the various types of therapy, which has only made me think a little more about myself. I am not one to self-analyze, so I do not know who I am or what I want.
    I have noticed that “Kat” feels much better when her floors are clean. That is certainly interesting, and I won’t try to work out why that may be the case. Historical reasons?
    The only activity that affects my “balance” is keeping mentally and physically active by whatever method works for me. Honestly, it does not matter what it is as long as the balance is there.
    I am pleased that you are making efforts to achieve balance in your life because the better you get at it, the happier you will be. Unfortunately, many individuals seem to become fixated on one or two activities or thought processes, making them lopsided (unbalanced). There are old sayings that say, “You can have too much of a good thing.” and “Variety is the spice of life”. Those who ignore these wise old sayings have lost sight of the essential “balance” in their life and are not happy or contented people. By the way, the same applies to one’s diet.
    Keep up the excellent work, and be rewarded.
    Regards, Phil

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  4. It’s cleaning the floor for me! I’m not sure why, but, ever since the school year started, I’ve only felt balanced and at peace when my floors are clean. The weekends are complete chaos in my head because, with everyone home, it’s impossible to keep the floor clean. But, during the week, it’s complete peace, which makes for easier afternoons when the kids are home and creating messes that seem to just magically appear in seconds, haha.

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